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WELCOME TO PARENTING UP!

Our Playful Podcast Community of Caregivers

Are you an unpaid, untrained family caregiver? Welcome! A supportive village member to a caregiver? Welcome! Have you ever been confused or overwhelmed by watching Alzheimer’s suck the life out of someone that matters to you? Welllllll com’ on!! I’m comedian J Smiles and you-are-in-the-right-place!!

I created Parenting Up! Caregiving Adventures with Comedian J Smiles® to uplift FCGs through graphic and humorous storytelling.

MORE ABOUT US:

THEE global family caregiving community.

The Holy Spirit bullied me into founding Parenting UP! Caregiving Adventures with Comedian J Smiles® in 2020 to combat the profound isolation of COVID-19 pandemic. I ain’t wanna do it. That little loud azz voice wouldn’t hush. 7 seasons later, FCGs in 130 countries across six continents trust me for hope, humor, and belonging. Grateful. 

PULL UP A CHAIR...

What I provide

Caregiving drove me to comedy. Because itz hardAF. Now comedy helps me and bunches of others get through it. If dementia has turned your world upside down, pull up a chair. 

Episodes are a mashup of my lived experiences, truths from fellow FCGs, and fancy facts from experts. Puhleeze be prepared for heavy doses of humor ‘cause ALZ makes people do silly stuff. 
Expect a ‘lil sunshine at the end of every episode. I call it the Snuggle Up™... a short takeaway to consider or carry with you into whatever comes next!

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vintage image of JSmiles father and mother and smaller image of JSmiles and her mother Zetty with masks over their faces from 2020

HOW DID I GET HERE:

Alzheimer’s Came in the Blink of an Eye…

In 2012, my dad died suddenly of a massive heart attack. Then, 90 itty-bitty days later, my mom “Zetty," a forensic CPA and expert-witness powerhouse, went from being 100% self-sufficient and doing brilliant, glass-ceiling shattering work to walking out the house without pants. WTH?!?!?

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And me? I went from living THE life — single, childless mechanical engineer, product designer lawyer living a meticulously crafted international life… to having a mama-baby. 

Did you know?

Women are more likely to get Alzheimer's than men.

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More than half of all individuals with Alzheimer's do not know they have it.

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6M+ Americans living with Alzheimer's.

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13M+ Americans projected rise by 2050.

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1 in 3 seniors will die with Alzheimer's or another dementia.

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